26/09/2017 – Update, I’ve decided to go back to my 14 month old profile picture because I prefer looking at the painting rather than a half me photograph and I’m rather attached to it, two lover’s seated on a park bench for over one year is a long time! I like it and my 🙂 eclectic, silly posts are all that really matters. A fair reason? My apologies if you’re a little annoyed.
I’ve asked myself many many times over the past 14 months should I show my face on WordPress, and more so just recently, yes there’s photos of me here on Blog Andrew cycle holidaying with mum and my younger brother, but I was age 10 and they don’t count but it’s lovely Hester from S. Africa called me cute! Trouble is that was me back then this is 2017!
Anonymity is a dilemma especially after the X rated filth 😀 and nonsense I’ve published here, makes me sound like I know what I’m doing….I don’t lol I ‘wing it’. Anyways what’s the pro’s and what’s the con’s to coming out and I’m not gay, not that there’s anything wrong with being gay for heavens sake, now I’m meandering and showing off!
Yes to show my face or not to show that’s the question. I’m not too worried about being recognised, should I be? So that’s not the reason why I hide behind a rather beautiful avatar of a couple in love sitting on a park bench, no I’m not too worried about being outed I’m more worried what people will think when and if they saw my photo, silly really?
I’m an anxious man, yes happy go lucky, but I have had my fair share of problems as regards personal female relationships but haven’t we all, no the real reason is I’m afraid everyone will unfollow, no one will read and most of all no one will reply to my comments anymore. are my worries valid.
I will say I completely respect people who decide not to, it’s even sexy an mysterious with ladies because you read their beautiful creative posts and form an image in your mind of what they look like, and I like that but I think it’s different for guys.
So I’m going to take the risk, I’ve decided to share half of me because after such a long time it feels right and I know people are curious. If my WordPress experience goes pear-shaped (British phrase for f*cked up) then so be it 🙂 I’ve had a blast here, ain’t I a drama queen with all this worrying. Bloody awful selfie though I should have smiled!